I ran into a woman the other day that basically ignored me. She said hi, but it was a sugar-coated, disingenuous greeting. At first, I felt somewhat indignant and offended but the more I thought about it (and looked at myself and my own thoughts), I could see that I myself had entertained some pretty unpleasant and petty thoughts about her. Neville Goddard once said, “Others only reflect back to you what you whisper to them in your own mind.”
It’s never about “them”.
“The soul of all life is your own soul. Wherever your eye falls, it sees naught but a reflection of yourself.” U. S. Anderson (from the book, Three Magic Words)